Tuesday, March 31, 2020

COVID-19


March 31, 2020



Novel coronavirus. COVID-19.


Three weeks ago today, exactly two days after returning to campus at the end of Spring Break, Jakob left Saint John’s University with the intention of returning on March 27. Clearing the campus before COVID-19 could have any effect on the students or staff was a safety and pre-emptive measure. It was supposed to be short-lived. The college has since officially closed for the semester and all learning will take place remotely. The next time Jakob sets foot on that campus it will be to pack up the remainder of his things and officially move back home for the summer. We still have not heard from SJU regarding the move-out process.


On Friday, March 6, 2020 at 4:30PM, exactly one hour after classes let out for spring break, the head of school at Worcester Academy sent out an email warning students and staff that spring break would likely be extended due to the novel coronavirus. It was extended just a few days later, and before spring break was over, the school would send home all international students that had remained on campus. They would officially move to distance learning for the foreseeable future.


On Friday, March 13, 2020, the Tantasqua/Union 61 school district followed suit with other communities in Massachusetts and closed their doors to all students, enforcing an academic stay-at-home that they hoped would last for two weeks. Under the direction of the Governor, Charlie Baker, all public and private Massachusetts elementary and secondary education schools are currently closed until May 4, 2020.


There is no one on this planet that has ever experienced the likes of what we are all going through right now. This has never happened. There has never been a world-wide quarantine that kept businesses closed, schools closed, and people shuttered indoors for this length of time. Communities have braced again weather, states have shut down highways because of natural disasters, countries have pulled together and mourned together after a terrorist attack. The world has never been united as one front to confront anything.


COVID-19, mandatory and recommended quarantines and social distancing will change the way we look at education, health care, communication, government intervention, stock-piling, hoarding, and interacting socially for a very long time. Possibly forever.


9/11 changed the way we travel, especially on an aircraft. It changed our perceptions of what was safe and who to trust. It challenged our views of racial profiling. On that horrible day in American history, 2,977 people died as the result of four terrorist attacks led by al-Qaeda. More than 25,000 people were injured. Can anyone imagine life going back to full-size shampoo and conditioner bottles being allowed in a carry-on bag?


In 1982 six adults and one twelve year old child were killed in the city of Chicago, IL. They all died of poisoning after taking Tylenol capsules laced with cyanide. The culprit was never found. Today, all over-the-counter medications come with tamper-resistant seals, labels, caps and boxes. Even toothpaste, many hair products and body sprays have protective seals.


Adam Walsh went missing from a Sears in Hollywood, FL in 1981. Adam’s severed head was found two weeks later. Adam became the face of violated children and his father, John Walsh, became the face of child endangerment intervention. Adam’s parents lobbied for the enacted Missing Children’s Act of 1982. In 1988 John Walsh began hosting “America’s Most Wanted.” In 1994 big box retailers implemented “Code Adam” to mobilize store clerks when a child was reported missing within their property. George W. Bush signed The Adam Walsh Child Protection and Safety Act of 2006. All because one little boy was abducted and murdered and his parents refused to believe that should be the end of their son’s legacy.


So in the days, weeks, and months to come, we have no reason to believe that what we are experiencing right now with social distancing, online education for all children from pre-school through college, and the inability to buy toilet paper, paper towels and disinfecting wipes from the largest online retailer in the world because those items are consistently “Out of Stock,” that this way of life will be short-lived or forgotten. This way of living right now will impact us for weeks, months and years to come after the “all clear” bell has been rung. Exactly how far reaching those changes will affect us remains to be seen.

Happy Birthday!


March 31, 2020



First of all:  Happy 30th Birthday to my beautiful, creative, hard-working, amazingly resilient, oldest daughter, Destiny! It’s hard to believe that you only came into my life 23 years ago. I still remember the first time I saw you:  at the park in Framingham. I was sitting on the swing set with a group of women, all of us watching the guys play ball, and you were toddling around the swing set, too small to swing, but old enough to be curious and energetic. There was a gallon of water on the ground next to the swing set that someone must have brought to keep the guys hydrated. Try as you might, you couldn’t carry the water over to the sweaty boys. But you did keep trying. You even heaved it a few feet across the grass. You were probably about two years old. I have always loved thinking back to that sunny day in the park and watching you just be you! Despite everything that challenges you as a single Mom, and in spite of the novel coronavirus that is challenging practically the entire world right now, I hope that you have a great birthday and know that you are loved!